Have you found yourself without your girlfriend because she walked out on you? You are probably realizing how much you really loved her and want to get her back. Now that she is gone you understand how much she meant to you, so now you are asking "how do I get my ex girlfriend back?"

You must have done something to really upset her to make her walk out on you. Do you know what you did or is this a complete surprise. Many times a guy does not see the writing on the wall when the relationship is not going well. There may have been signs something was coming, she may have even talked to you about but you dismissed it.

Regardless she is gone and you want to get her back. First thing is take a good look at yourself to understand what you may have done. Be honest about it, you can even talk to friends who could give you an outsiders opinion about your relationship.

If you are at fault then its time to move on past that and make the necessary improvements in your life that will be needed to get your ex back. You need to fix whatever it was that caused her to leave, if you don't you would be wasting your time trying to get her, the two of you will only break up again if she came back.

When you first contact her you must make an apology for your mistakes and it better be from the heart. Tell her you now realize what you had done and regret your actions. That's all you need to do for now, leave her with that and take some time to get yourself back together, a few weeks would be about right. You could call just to see how she is doing during that time but keep the call short, don't push things just yet.