There are so many things she admires about you and it's plain that she's pleased with you but she also reveals you so maddening. Whenever she attempts to engage you and draw you out you get that "deer in the headlights" look.

She blow ups, explodes, starts hollering and screaming, then relaxes down and attempts to have a nice conversation and all you are in a position to do the entire time is nod. Intermittently her yelling and screaming pushes you to the point at which you either pay no attention to her or walk away to avoid her. 2 hours later you come back and say sorry but even after you've recounted "I'm sorry", and reasons have been made both sides, you can see she is's still crazy at you because she is a bit distant. But you do not need more hollering and screaming, so you let it slide. For one or two days everything is so great. Then she wants to talk about feelings and feelings, you do the deer in the headlights thing again and hell explodes again. She screams, screams cries, threatens you with ultimatums and all you would like to do is go away somewhere and think.

The dramas go and on, until one day she ups and leaves. You continue to like her much and you know she loves you but she just can't stand your emotional passivity. And she isn't the first and only woman who liked you but just can't stand to be around you as she thinks you are so cold and uncaring.

What occurs with you is that each time you are made to address anything related to feelings and feelings, the inner kid inside goes into his room, alone, and softly closes the door behind him. You do not let how you are feeling be known because you do not know the simplest way to, so you withdraw into yourself. There you stress yourself with, what will they think? Will they know how I actually feel? What if they believe I'm vain and shallow? What if I'm getting so carried away and get too emotional, they will think I'm not man enough. What if they learn something about me that they'll later on use against me? What if I was to tell them a youth secret in strictest confidence and they go blurting it about and everyone knows? What if things just do not work out? All of these and plenty more reasons make it seem as though it is best to withdrew and keep your emotions inside. You can walk away into your "emotional bedroom" and close the door behind you, but you are also closing out the people you want to know how you feel and feel your love. The irony is that what you fear most is peoples's hurt feelings, but the women you attract and get into a relationship with are sometimes girls who have so much emotional hurt and so many emotional issues. Your fear of wounding somebody's feelings, of getting your affections hurt, of making a screw up or taking an arguable position that involves feelings and feelings only ends up making women actually funny at you, feeling hurt and wounding you.

The ladies ( and people ) you meet feel that you are a bit detached, uninviting, firm and calm despite your best tries to give yourself enthusiastically and absolutely . Your refusing to "talk out" your affections just convinces ladies that they must bump you too far before you show any feelings. Occasionally women get mad at you for some amazing thing and then just keep it up simply to get a reaction from you.

And whether or not the relationship looks to be great, you are continually troubling about which idea / advice / methodology you want to follow, what you must say or how you want to act, what is the easiest technique to get back on her good side and the like. You stress yourself out believing and thinking the worst of a situation. Many people will go from one distressing situation or failed relationship to another without giving any thought at all to why or how our relations keep failing. Even better, we over correct -- attempt to change the outer circumstances without changing the inside -- and we finish up in another relationship that fails for similar, yet opposite extraordinary reasons. The hard facts are that are you making these experiences. The other person might have his / her own issues from youth that they try and compensate for, or replace, in their own mind or whatever. You can try to discover how to identify annoyed girls who by listening to the words they use and their body language but that is just like attempting to cover a sore with a really nice looking piece of material so you cannot see it.

If you would like to draw in folks who bring you contentment and accomplishment,and if you want to maintain a healthy successful relationship you have to take each situation you experience with some other person as having a message for you.

Till you hear it, it is very probable that it will be repeated.