Do you think that you know how to get your ex back? Although what may seem to be the "right" thing to do, your behavior will set in motion your chances of getting back with your ex. Before you attempt to fix things between you and your ex, read this article to find out if you are headed for disaster. This article will cover seven common ways to ruin your chances with your ex.

Mistake #1: Calling Too Often

This is all too common. Calling your ex might seem like a practical move to let them know you miss them, but it will backfire. Calling them constantly will just annoy the heck out of them and make you appear needy.

Mistake #2: Emailing or Texting Too Much

Emailing them and texting them just to check up on them will only push them further away. By leaving no room for mystery, your ex will just label you as a stalker with no life. The best thing is to put your phone and email to rest. It hurts but its the best thing you can do.

Mistake #3: Nagging

Bringing up past promises and reminding them of it will NOT help make your ex want you back. Just because they promised you before, all gloves are off after the breakup. Do not nag or complain to your ex that they have to do anything they promised. You need to show to them that you can handle it on their own.

Mistake #4: Cyber-Stalking

Do you Facebook, Friendster, Twitter or Blog? Leaving comment or messages on their page asking for a second chance will just make you vulnerable to criticism. You need to put an end to the constant checking on updated photos, and status of your ex's online profile. This will drive you crazy and your mind will start playing tricks on you. Try to limit your time there. It won't help heal your broken heart.

Mistake #5: Stalking

Dropping by or coincidentally being in the same place as your ex can seem weird and sometimes downright freaky. Don't follow your ex or hangout in place where they might be. You will just come off as a weirdo and your chances of getting back will cease to exist.

Mistake #6: Showering WIth GIfts

Trying to win back an ex with expensive gift or flowers might seem like a legitimate way to get them back. But more than often, the place backfires as your ex doesn't want gift, but just space. You're better off respecting the breakup and giving your ex the space he or she wants.

Mistake #7: Calling 9-5

If you try to contact your ex at their place of work, its a definite no-no. Your ex will probably hate you for crossing into their personal space. This goes along with mistake number 1 but calling your ex at their work is just plain silly. You will look like a crazy person.

The Answer

What you need to remember is that your ex knows how to contact you. If your ex want to they have your number and email. If they do not call, or contact you, you just have to remember that you are in control of your own life. Only time can truly help you. So take this time and start to take the proper steps to getting your life back on track without your ex.