Where did the first love go? Do you still really love her? What about the sweet words that you used to call her? Does it mean that you have forgotten?.

Days have passed, months, years and the bond that used to tie you together seems to have broken. Remember that day that you tied the knot and walked down the aisle, there were many people who had came to witness but you could hardly see them, all that you saw was you and her. At that moment the world was just for the two of you. The long waited day was over and the next step that you took was to go for the honey moon.

Life was so sweet and you felt at the peak. The world seemed to be the best place to be, but wait until the honey moon was over and life drastically changed. It's is no longer the life that you used to enjoy and i wonder whether you still love him or her?

Real life starts immediately after honey moon. What happened now that you have started coming late after work? Remember how you used to be on time, you never had time to be with friends, you would rush home and everyone knew that you had a family to attend to. How you used to brag about your beloved wife, she used to be all that you would talk about and you would let everyone know that she is your wife. You used to like her company and you wouldn't make any move in her absentia. I wonder what happened now that you don't like introducing her to your friends. When you meet with friends while with her, you always try to avoid topics that will suggest that she is your woman. To the women, what happened now that all the attention that you used to give him is gone? This is the reason that makes me wonder whether you still really love him or her?

I have noted that when people are newly married, women plays a very important role in their husbands life. True to say, men are very careless and they need someone to control of their bad behaviors. Women tends to be very sensitive about relationships and all the attention is drawn to their husbands to avoid such mistakes that may bring shame to their family. She used to wake up very early in the morning to make sure that he is well catered for before he leaves for the place of work. He used to be on record and he was the most decent and well groomed man. Everyone would notice this since he got married and they used to comment about it. He used to be proud of his wife and this made everyone to admire their marriage. What happened now that he has started wearing torn out socks and dirty shirts? Do you really love him?

Men and women, you are all under obligation to love your partners. You must rekindle the love frame that used to shine before. My big question is; Do you really love him or her?